In memory of my father, William Wingo · Read the Dedication
THE QUESTION

What have we stopped noticing?

Letter from the Editor

By the end of August, I could look back at the summer and make a list of everything I’d planned but never got around to doing. The flowers that died in their plastic containers while the potting soil sat unopened beside them. The grill I barely used. The big vacation I didn’t take. The household projects I was sure I would finally finish.

It wasn’t the summer I’d expected back in June.

But that list was the wrong way to measure it. I’d been so busy tracking what didn’t happen that I almost missed what did.

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    It Was There the Whole Time

    Someone recommends a restaurant. A barber. A place to get something fixed. And it turns out to be down the street from the house. The reply is usually the same. I know exactly where you mean. I've driven past that place a thousand times. I never knew that was there.

    The thing is, it was there the whole time. We just never looked.

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    The Whole Fish Mystery

    No single recipe followed. Cooked here in September. No Occasion.

    A whole fish has a reputation it didn't earn. On a menu it arrives with a market price. At the fish counter, it looks like a project. It isn't.

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    Off the Main Street

    Three visits to St. Michaels before I knew what was there.

    I’ve been to St. Michaels three times before I knew what was there.

    We stayed at the Inn at Perry Cabin one year. Came back another year with the kids for the Christmas parade. Drove out again this summer for brunch. If you had asked me about the town after any of those, I would have told you it's pretty, it's on the water, and it's quiet. All three are true. But there's more to it.

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    The Speaker I Keep In the Shower

    Dim lights. Hot shower. Quiet Storm playlist.

    My nighttime routine is like a ritual. I turn on the dim lights. Maybe light a candle, and put on some music while I destress in a hot shower.

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    Your answer may become part of next month’s conversation.

    WE’RE ASKING

    The lead essay is about what we stop seeing when we are focused on what comes next.

    So we want to know:

    What’s something you finally noticed that’s been there all along?

    A sentence is plenty. We read every note.

    Selected responses may appear in October’s Second Opinions, lightly edited for length and clarity. Include your first name and city, or tell us if you’d rather remain anonymous.